Camille James says ~

Tag >> Love

A dear friend once said that the key to his success was having no expectations, therefore he never experienced disappointment. I had to ponder on that for a while and eventually I understood. It especially rang true to people I encounter, because every time I placed my own expectations on another... they always fell short.

I think that's why a lot of women are single today. Ladies you know how we come up with this extravagant list of qualities that we want in a man. He has to be rich, funny, strong, sensitive, honorable, loving, wise and no baby mama drama... and the list goes on and on.So much so that many women are actually looking for someone who does not actually exist. Well maybe in the comic books.

So I set out into the world with no expectations, which actually opened my world up to possibilities I did not know existed. This allowed the people I met and myself the freedom to just be...... How simple is that?


Root Word (RELATION - SHIP)

When two come together, they form a relation
A ship is designed to take you on a journey.

Angel: Chamuel
 
Every relation is not intended for romance; some were created to take you to a higher place of understanding in order to experience lessons necessary for your own personal growth. These encounters with others are apart of a divine plan that will take you on a journey of love. That is the ultimate goal of every union.

A very common statement in dealing with relation-ships is that he or she is not the same person from the start. This is definitely the case in any attempt to form a loving relation between two beings. Love requires that change or evolution occur by its own nature. The process or journey to love involves a harder look at your own personal definition of what love is. People, places or things  simply play a role in assisting you on that journey.

How are you to know the warmth of the sun, if you have not experienced the dreadful cold or the euphoria of love without the memories of being alone? In other words, when you first make an effort to understand something or someone, you must know both sides of the truth. There is a requirement to release one side of the experience for the other. This leads to greater understanding, compassion and  a more whole or holy  lifestyle.

LOVE is everything and in everything that you do. Whatever direction you are going in, the final destination is love and self awareness. Those involved with love will evolve.


Diaries of a Butterfly

Welcome to the all new blog of artist and author, Camille James. I hope you enjoy my ramblings, ideas, inspirations and most important --- my sense of humor. Come back often because I'll be updating this page often as a way to keep my sanity.

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